The chat room experience can be wildly unpredictable. Anything may happen, depending on who is on the guest list and the general drift of the invitation. They don’t need much encouragement to become fun perversions, safe places where you will have the courage to do what in other environments would be unthinkable. How great is that? Yet they may also serve as warm cubby holes for developing intimate friendships. Make them a reflection of your inner self.