The chat room experience can be wildly unpredictable. Anything can happen, depending on who is on the guest list and the general drift of the invitation. They don’t need much encouragement to become orgiastic social forums, safe places where you will have the courage to do what in other environments would be unthinkable. How fun is that? But they can also be warm cubby holes in which intimate partnerships evolve. Make them a reflection of your inner self.